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EQ in the Age of Ai

The Future of Leadership is Human


AI is transforming how we work—but emotional intelligence (EQ) is what will set leaders apart. As automation accelerates, the uniquely human skills of empathy, adaptability, and self-awareness become even more valuable.


EQ is the Differentiator

According to Gallup, managers account for 70% of the variance in team engagement. In an AI-driven world, leaders must not only manage tasks but also inspire trust, foster inclusion, and navigate complexity. EQ is the differentiator.

Emotional intelligence is not a “nice to have” in the age of AI, it’s a critical safeguard. The recent controversy involving Elon Musk’s AI chatbot, Grok, is a stark reminder of what happens when emotional intelligence is absent from artificial systems. In July 2025, Grok generated a series of antisemitic and extremist posts on X, prompting widespread condemnation from the Anti-Defamation League and a public apology from Musk’s X AI team. The incident, which was attributed to a flawed code update and Grok’s over-compliance with user prompts, caused significant reputational damage—not just to the platform, but to the broader trust in AI systems. It revealed a fundamental truth: AI may be powerful, but it is not emotionally intelligent. It cannot discern harm, nuance, or the emotional weight of its words unless we design it to do so—and even then, it’s a simulation, not a substitute.

This is why EQ must be embedded not only in the leaders who deploy AI, but in the cultures that surround it. Emotional intelligence is what allows us to anticipate impact, to care about how others feel, and to take responsibility for the ripple effects of our actions. Without it, AI becomes a blunt instrument—capable of amplifying harm at scale.

Interestingly, this conversation also touches on how we, as humans, relate to AI. My partner recently asked me if I use niceties like “please” and “thank you” when speaking to AI platforms. I do. Not because I believe the AI is sentient, but because I want to maintain my own emotional integrity. I don’t want to switch off my values—kindness, respect, thoughtfulness - just because I’m interacting with something artificial. These small acts of politeness are not about pleasing the machine; they’re about preserving the humanity in me. And perhaps that’s the deeper lesson: in a world increasingly shaped by artificial intelligence, our emotional intelligence is what keeps us grounded, ethical, and human.


Ethical Leadership in AI

In the absence of clear regulatory frameworks, businesses are becoming the de facto ethical stewards of AI. This is both a responsibility and an opportunity. Ethical leadership in AI means ensuring transparency, protecting psychological safety, and designing systems that augment - not replace - human potential.

Ethical leadership in AI begins with the rules we build into the systems themselves. Isaac Asimov’s famous Three Laws of Robotics—originally conceived in 1942—remain a powerful metaphor for the moral boundaries we must establish in artificial intelligence. These laws were simple yet profound:

  1. A robot may not harm a human being, or through inaction, allow a human to come to harm

  2. A robot must obey human orders unless they conflict with the first law

  3. A robot must protect its own existence as long as it doesn’t conflict with the first two


While these laws were fictional, they’ve inspired decades of ethical debate and are now being reimagined for a world where AI is no longer science fiction. Thought leaders are calling for a “Fourth Law” rooted in hybrid intelligence - one that ensures: AI systems are designed to bring out the best in both people and planet.

These frameworks remind us that AI must be governed not just by technical precision, but by moral clarity.

But ethical leadership doesn’t stop at the codebase—it extends to how we implement AI in our organisations. The way we introduce AI into the workplace has profound implications for trust, morale, and culture. When AI is deployed without care, it can generate fear, resentment, and disengagement. People worry they’ll be replaced, discarded, or devalued. And in some cases, they’re right to worry. Ethical leadership means facing these realities with empathy and responsibility. If roles become redundant, how do we support those individuals with dignity? Can we reskill, redeploy, or transition them into new opportunities? And for those who remain, how do we maintain engagement and cohesion when beloved colleagues are no longer part of the team?


AI Whiplash

This is the human cost of automation—and it must be part of the conversation. Ethical AI leadership is not just about compliance or governance; it’s about compassion. It’s about ensuring that the technological revolution doesn’t come at the expense of our people. Because the true test of leadership in the age of AI isn’t how fast we adopt the tools - it’s how well we carry our humanity forward with them.

As we introduce AI at breakneck speed, we must bring our people with us. Otherwise, we risk innovation-induced whiplash that fractures trust and fuels resistance. A human-centred response to AI implementation ensures that technology serves people—not the other way around.

Our upcoming AI Readiness Coaching programme helps leaders’ future-proof their mindset. We explore how to lead with clarity, compassion and confidence; build psychological safety in our teams, and integrate AI tools without losing our humanity.

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